Thursday, March 26, 2026
Garth, Lesley, Ryan, and family—
there are no words that can truly meet this moment.
We simply want you to know that you are not alone, and that Jacob’s life—and your love for him—matter deeply to all of us.
Today, we stand with you in grief, in love, and in remembrance of a child who touched all of us.
May you never doubt how deeply he is loved, how deeply he mattered, and how deeply you are held by those around you.
Thank you for sharing him with us. We will carry his memory, and we will carry you, in the days ahead.
Jacob was diagnosed with stage four bone cancer in April of 2025.
What followed was a courageous fight—one no child, and no parent, should ever have to face.
I want to share a few thoughts on hope.
People often say tomorrow is a new day.
But sometimes tomorrow comes, and it offers no hope at all.
And without hope, we feel like we have nothing.
We ask why—why this, why him—and there are no real answers,
especially when bad things happen to someone so young, so good.
The pain doesn’t just disappear.
And it shouldn’t.
Pain is the price of love.
Anger and frustration come with grief.
They are difficult, but they need to be felt—because only by feeling them can we begin to move forward.
Hope isn’t pretending everything is okay.
Hope is what helps us endure when things are not okay.
The energy of hope is unlimited—but sometimes we can’t find it on our own.
That’s when friends and family carry it for us.
Without hope, our minds go to dark places.
Without hope, even love can feel distant.
But hope changes.
It grows quieter.
It becomes smaller—and stronger.
We hope the suffering ends.
We hope the love remains.
We hope we will meet again.
And in all of this, there is still the hope of love—
love that does not end,
love that stays with us,
love that carries Jacob’s memory forward.
If there is anything we can do for one another now, it is this:
help each other find hope when it feels impossible to find alone.
Jacob mattered.
He is loved.
And he will not be forgotten.
May we hold space for grief—and still leave room for hope.
Love remains. And because love remains, so does hope.
Love always - the CGG boys.